Simple Words Say it Best

I know I have mentioned it before,  I have been reading the books of Alexander McCall  Smith and they take place in Botwana. The heroine in the series I have been reading called No. Ladies Detective Agency is Precious Ramotswe.

It was time to take the pumpkin out of the pot and eat it. In the final analysis, that was what solved these big problems of life. You could think and think and get nowhere, but you still had to eat your pumpkin. That brought you down to earth. That gave you a reason for going on. Pumpkin.
― Alexander McCall SmithThe No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency

The dozen or so books are inspiring, and I would genuinely like to meet this author who breathes so much life into his characters. The author lived in Africa and if you click his wikipedia link you will see he has varied interests.

I loved learning how people address each other as Rra or Mma (male and female salutations meaning brother and sister) and the traditions of asking people if they slept well.  I had no interest in Botswana before reading these books but now I am intrigued.

The respectful and traditional ways of addressing each other in the books, and the actions and words of Precious Ramotswe are like vitamin C for the soul.  The books include simple messages that ring out like when her late father prevents her from throwing rocks at the snake in the tree even though it threatens a nest.  Her father shares that not everything can be prevented or should be in that simple metaphor.

Simple stories, straight forward characters that make me chuckle and smile.  That leads me to my blog post subject – Simple Words Say it Best.

It struck me while reading the importance of simply saying sometimes what it is your heart to people, especially if it is kind.  Words like, I appreciate you, Thank you for your friendship, ….etc.  For some reason, I hesitate, but why should it be strange to tell someone  you like or appreciate them?

As the year draws to a close, I would simply like to say Thank you to all the encouraging people in my life.  Thank you to family, to friends, to the kind words of bloggers who click LIKE, and subscribe.

Please accept my simple, heartfelt words of appreciation.

Barracuda lunch!

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The last blog post of 2012, maybe

Plans are nothing; planning is everything. – Dwight D. Eisenhower 

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This is the time of the year, the days are short (literally short of daylight) before a new year begins.

Sports channels are picking the best and worst of the year, Magazines are picking the most photogenic of the year and predicting whom to watch next year.

Newspapers are picking the newsmakers of the year and predicting for the new year.

vegas showgirlThe wheel turns, and turns and for me and you, we are probably not concerned about any of the above, or only fleetingly.

I have always found that my new years begin in October, I was born in October and thoughout my life I have started new challenges in October, quit jobs, and started careers in October.

But whenever it works for you, there likely should be a time when you reflect, and consciously pick a path to follow.  2012 is nearly over, while you can remember, what was the best part of the year? What did you not like in 2012? Was there something in 2012 you planned to do and missed? Can you start now to make sure you don’t miss out in 2013?

I am consciously planning more than I used to.  Months and months ahead last year I bought tickets for events and travel I intended to enjoy, conferences for example, and bought plane tickets for. I took a holiday to Vegas  last year and planned ahead for that. Soon I will be volunteering for a curling event, I have been signed up for this event for more than six months.

And now looking ahead I am taking a writing course in spring 2013, I want to not watch as much television in 2013  and this will be one of the ways I would like to use my time.

I hope you can find something to do for yourself in 2013, and plan ahead so that a year from now, you can count it as one of your memories that you are glad you didn’t miss.

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We need an umbrella

I love the picture here. The quiet of the street, the simplicity of sun shining through and giving the stroller a rainbow overhead. Lovely. Portugal, on my list.

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colorful-umbrella-installation-agueda-portugal-patricia-almeida-gessato-gblog Photograph of suspended candy-colored umbrellas over an Águeda street in Portugal, by design studio Ivotavares / photographer  Patrícia Almeida

Photograph of suspended candy-colored umbrellas over an Águeda street in Portugal, by design studio Ivotavares / by photographer Patrícia Almeida

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We are going on holiday

Try to imagine yourself standing beside the bus……………. now look up. Aren’t you glad you brought a shovel? 🙂

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Tateyama Kurobe Alpine Route, Toyama, Japan / unknown photographer

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Perspective and Attitude

So much seems to be perspective and attitude.

Definition of Perspective: A mental view or outlook.

I noticed that a billionaire gave away 500 Million to charity today. That’s fantastic and I applaud the good that the billionaire will create so doing.  I think it is awesome but there is a part of me that thinks that it an action that likely is without sacrifice.  If you have 500 Million that you can just write a cheque for, money is probably a non-issue.

I admire even more the every day family that gives sacrificially, the anonymous donation to the Salvation Army or the dropped off gift certificate to the neighbour for groceries because groceries for that neighbour are a luxury.

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I did a speech for Toastmasters about the number of people in the world that earn an average of a dollar a day; it’s a huge, sad number, millions and hundreds of millions of people.  I gained knowledge about Beadsforlife organization and also shared information so others could investigate what I think is a hopeful and fruitful business.I also gained perspective, or was reminded again of how rich and blessed I am.  I confess I buy lottery tickets and think how nice it would be if money was not an issue so I guess that while I feel rich, I am not satisfied.  Am I wrong? I considered what I would do with the money. I would really like it if my wife could stop working, the karma from that would be amazing! I would love to help my kids and give them a boost financially. I would love to send my parents on a world cruise.  I am rich though in many ways and I am grateful.

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English: 2010 Mavericks surfing competition. The image was taken from a boat. Here’s Shalom’s description of his experience: “The boat was very rocky. Many people got sea sick though. One guy (photog) never even got any pictures he was so sick.” Français : Compétition de surf de Mavericks édition 2010. Photo prise depuis un bateau. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Definition of Attitude: A state of mind or feeling.

I saw a youtube video the other day of blind Brazilian surfer.  I watched a little and I was stunned. I remember one day I walked outside with my eyes shut; I knew it was safe, it was a flat sidewalk and I could open my eyes any second. I was totally uncomfortable. It is amazing and inspiring to think of a blind surfer.  I admire the sheer bravery of this young man who doesn’t let his disability prevent him from pushing his boundaries of experience.  Then I look at myself and I think I apply brakes on myself so much because I am afraid to fail, to be embarrassed.  So what! If you want to do something, throw away those self-imposed barriers – jump over and…. do yoga, ride a motorcycle, run a marathon, become a chef – and give yourself a good attitude about life and trying.

So much is perspective and attitude. What do you think?

If you liked or if you didn’t… thanks for reading.

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Afternoon cinema The Hobbitt

When I was young, my parents would treat me to Saturday afternoon at the movies. The movies were much less expensive in those days, and the films were less sophisticated but other than that, not much has changed.

 

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movie popcorn (Photo credit: Robot B)

 

I loved going into the shows with my friends and then leaving hours later with popcorn breath and my mind racing with the special effects, and images the world I just visited. When I was younger it was Walt Disney movies, then it was the 007 movies, and then science fiction. Most of the movies have no attraction to me, especially horror. Can’t handle those at all. A lot of the movies have only three or four minutes that are interesting and we see those in the trailers, so we can skip the movie.

 

Now and then a movie is made that belongs on the big screen, and it matches the excellent book it is based upon.  I saw a movie like that today; The Hobbitt. 

 

It takes a brave producer to take on a movie that is familiar to 150 million people, no shortcuts in the story were taken, and it was appreciated. Of course this was only part 1 of 3 so I will have wait to see if the next two meet the standard the director set for himself today; I suspect that Peter Jackson will.

 

Enjoy the movie, and best wishes for popcorn breath and red twizzlers in your future.

 

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