Fishing for Something More

I like this post because it shows how we teach our children. I believe always getting what they want is a terrible idea. Thanks for lessons I was taught by my parents, I hope I helped my two wonderful children learn as well. I was blessed with great examples of parenting.

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KITP Therapy

work 1Something that makes you improve your behavior” – that’s the Cambridge Online definition of a “Kick In The Pants”.

Has it happened to you?

Do you use the expression?

kick in but 1

Amazing to think that sometimes we actually are grateful for a negative action because it results in a positive reaction, right?

I don’t think this is exactly what Newton’s 3rd Law of Motion had in mind “ For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction ” and in fact in life it seems to me that a small spark of kindness is the kindling for a bonfire from others of kindness and positivity.

Which do I want?

KITP therapy to do a behavior I already desire? or the spark of encouragement that pushes me over the edge of a rut to start a new path to follow.

I think I will be careful in expressing my needs, the KITP therapy may work, but I prefer to receive the softer form of motivation. If not immediately effective, repeat please 🙂

kick in but 2It begs me to ask myself, which motivation do I express to others?

Not the former, but the latter I hope.

My Grandmother was right about the Golden Rule.

 

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It’s B-day, but not birthday.

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no shoes, see?

There is a day for everything in this shrinking world, and today being June 1 is National Barefoot Day.

Really! You didn’t know that?  I suspect many of you are like me and celebrate this day throughout the year.

The day for me is officially kaput, when I come home, peel off my socks, switch to my levi shorts and put those feet up BAREFOOT!

Tell your boss, it is time to go home (or to a beach or park)  to celebrate this day, kick off those shoes!  The boss can look it up here.

National Go Barefoot Day was launched by a non-profit organization called Soles4Souls. The real purpose behind this quirky holiday is to encourage people to donate new and used shoes to the victims of natural disasters. Take a moment to do a little spring cleaning and give away the shoes you no longer need. You can even organize a shoe drive in your community.

My toes won’t be gracing the cover of any magazine covers soon, but the warm weather is here and the sandals are on!

Celebrate the day please and share how you did in the comments!

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Water your own lawn

I am just returned from my nation’s capital, Ottawa – I’m a Canuck, as in Canadian (maple leaf, nanaimo bars, and much more, click here to learn about things invented in Canada

I digress obviously, I am returned after flying nearly all the way across this huge country of mine and back again.

I left my home nestled between Okanagan BC lakes and wineries and flew 3,537 kilometres (one-way) from Vancouver to Ottawa ~ again being reminded just how immense my country is.

I left home to enjoy time with a long-time friend which was watering my own lawn sort of. I am fortunate to have this friend for a long time, and it was a friendship that just came about. Any time spent with a friend, one you can really be yourself with, is refreshing – and  my time with him was that.

Ottawa is a city but feels small. It is a city of stone buildings, green parks, and embassies. It is a bilingual city where when you enter a store you are likely to be greeted with “Bonjour” which is french for “Hello”. It seems a young city since the University of Ottawa is downtown. It is a multicultural city where the traffic is aggressive but the people are polite. Food ranges from poutine (french fries with gravy and Quebec cheese)  to tacos, whatever your taste buds desire.

Museums and things to do are  galore in Ottawa, and if you have a friend like I have, he will point out the different types of architecture, the English style buildings versus the French – check the Supreme Court of Canada building versus the Parliament Buildings. Monuments, and statues abound like Tim Hortons (it’s an ubiquitous coffee shop).

Not often can you return from a trip and feel refreshed. I did thanks to my friend.

Lawns like friendships take care to keep them green, and healthy. My friend is kind and generous, and a trip for him to visit here is always welcome but he can’t always do that. I went to visit there, and we had an exceptional time, some laughs, some exercise, (he arranged for a one week free gym pass in advance!), always comfortable, and refreshing.

Visit Ottawa, make friends with an Ottawa native, you will have a capital time, have some good food, see some statues and interesting things. You may even return refreshed, it’s that kind of place.

BTW – I visited Toastmasters club as a guest while in Ottawa. I was impressed because there are so many there, ninety!

 

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A Man, A Dog and a Hummingbird

Rebloged a happy rescue story. Enjoying a holiday far from home, in Ottawa. If you look on the map I’m a long long walk from Okanagan valley (east of Vancouver ).

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I’ve got the cure to make you smile

Some stress meds from 4 years ago.

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Too much Stress is unhealthy.  Everyone nods their head when they hear this statement. We know some stress is alright but better if we don’t live that way and keep everything in perspective.

This is so true for me also. I am reminded everyday of how blessed I am. I can go through my phone directory and as I look through the names I am reminded that these wonderful people care about me.

Counting your blessings makes you smile. Count them often, and smile. 

Q. How are rabbits like calculators?
A. They both multiply really fast.

Not smiling yet?

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