July 7, 1987 – A New Life, a new freedom

Today is July 7, 2012.  Today I celebrate 25 years since my  successful kidney transplant at Vancouver General Hospital.

I had always enjoyed good health growing up, so it was shock to me at 18 years old to have

Peritoneal dialysis

Peritoneal dialysis (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

myself rushed into the hospital with blood pressure of something like 210 over 90.  After ten days of tests I booked myself out and then they put me back in for more tests including a biopsy.

In 1978 I learned then I had a hereditary condition called Alport Syndrome. They told me if I was lucky I would stay healthy for ten or twelve years before needing dialysis; but they were wrong.

In 1982 I was already feeling weak, tired and worse. In 1983 while my wife was pregnant with our daughter Mandy I was in the hospital having surgery to begin peritoneal dialysis.  It was stressful on all of us, and if not for the support and love of my family I probably would have overreacted somehow.  That support and love carries a person through the dark times.

Hemodialysis in progress

Hemodialysis in progress (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

In 1985 I had suffered through some painful peritonitis episodes and it was time to try hemodialysis.  I was placed on the transplant list then as well and started to dream.

 

 

In April 1986 I had my first transplant or graft on my left hip.  That night of the surgery we were so happy. Four days later I woke up in terrible pain, blood clots were clogging tubes and I got them to remove the tube and then I could sleep again.  The transplant was working, but it was not to last. After five months of trying and enduring all types of treatments, and being the only one of four in my room to survive the summer – it was time to give up.  I went back on hemodialysis in September and went finally home to enjoy my family.

July 1987 I got the call for another transplant. This time we were still battle-scarred from the previous year. As we drove to the hospital we realized I could not endure another five months in the hospital and related treatments. We planned my will as we drove, and hoped for the best.  This time it didn’t start working. After 4 days the surgeons said we will remove it in the morning. That night it began to work and so began my journey leading to today.

I left out a lot of detail of those years 1982 to 1987 because it’s past and done. What is really nice is appreciating all the years since then when I have not needed to do any type of dialysis whether four times a day on peritoneal or 3 times a week on hemodialysis.  On top of the time saved I have also been much healthier and free to travel and be with the friends and family that make life so special.

I have much to be grateful for in life, thankful to the family that gave permission for the organ transplant.  My wish for anyone who reads this post that they also count their blessings and that is always a worthwhile exercise.

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Fun Music is always great to watch and listen to

Music is so powerful to all of us. When I was young I was at concerts seeing names like Three Dog Night and Alice Cooper. There are lots of groups like Pink Floyd that I think I will never get tired of. Paul McCartney and the Wings are classic as are California by Eagles, Eric Clapton, Dire Straits and the list goes on and I will still miss most of my favorites.

Band on the Run

Band on the Run (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Music is wonderful but lyrics seems to be missed by the music today. I believe that lyrics are important and music should be fun and uplifting; at least most of the time. Some songs I suppose could be enjoyed if you feeling a bit melancholy.

I like Vince Gill because he is seems fun and he is pretty good musician also.

 

 

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Take your eyes off the goal, enjoy the trip – the detour is worth it!

Each day is an unwritten page. When I woke up this morning, when you woke up this morning, what happened was at least partially unknown.  You may have had the route of your day planned out, but life is going to throw something else into the mix, a detour.  Lucky you!

Today I knew I had some things that I wanted to do, and I knew I wouldn’t get them all done. I didn’t know that I was going to have a really fun lunch with a friend.

Some people are destination drivers. They are in such a focus to go from A to B that they miss the fun they could have had on the journey. Sure in the seriousness of life we do need to get things done but are those the events that really count sometimes?

Today the discussion and time I had with a friend reminded me again that it is the small moments that sometimes last,….that are not forgotten.

For example, I did a bike trip with my buddy Ian nearly 20 years ago. We rode our mountain bikes from Chute Lake on the Kettle Valley Railway to Hydraulic Lake. We rode in September and the day was warm. We stopped along the way to just lay in an open area of grass to solar charge ourselves and I fell asleep in the sun for a half an hour. It was an awesome feeling to just be that relaxed. I never have forgotten that siesta and it was a small part of that whole trip.

That whole trip was moments of visiting, riding, talking and freezing at night that count as a very special memory. Nearly 20 years ago and I have done countless bike rides since but that one stands out for both of us as a special time I’m sure. It wasn’t just the destination of all the trestles, it was the detours that made it special.  Just like today, my day had a detour in the middle to be with a friend. and it made the day!

Enjoy your detours in life!

Enjoy your unexpected changes in the day. Take the time to spot a hummingbird, take a picture of flowers, or in my case, sleep in the sun, even feed the squirrels, and the always important, eat some jujube candy.

Sorry this video is way off topic but I must add this Randy Travis video ~ it’s been running around in my mind for days.  Sometimes I get a tune stuck in my head and yet can’t remember the artist.  This way when it pops into my head again I will be able to find it quickly here on my blog. (grin) 

Such a sweet song, and this video has the music and lyrics – Forever and Ever, Amen by Randy Travis.

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Photo of the Day: Sunrise Over Theodore Roosevelt NP

This blogger consistently has superb pictures with lots of colour often combined with locations of places I have never heard of. If you are busy, working but in your heart of hearts have the desire to travel and discover, you can do so vicariously through this blog. Thanks for the photos, and stories.

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The Secret of Happiness from TED.COM

I love watching or listening to the ideas at TED: Ideas worth spreading. Today I was doing a little chore and listening to Barry Schwartz.

He has a funny but interesting idea about the secret to happiness, and the cause of unhappiness. He illustrates his findings by humorously talking about such diverse consumer products as salad dressings, blue jeans and stereo systems. cute witty slides also! 

Click here to watch it yourself. 

Psychologist Barry Schwartz takes aim at a central tenet of western societies: freedom of choice. In Schwartz’s estimation, choice has made us not freer but more paralyzed, not happier but more dissatisfied…

Interesting stuff and his conclusion is that we make ourselves unhappy due to our expectations upon ourselves along with the demands to constantly make decisions.  If you enjoy humor and thought provoking ideas. Please check it out TO LEARN WHAT BARRY  SCHWARTZ SAYS IS THE SECRET TO HAPPINESS. I hope you enjoy and let me know how you enjoyed his talk.

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Mexican cantina, a beautiful girl, and a cowboy on the run!

A friend of mine just returned from holiday which included a dip into that ‘great state of Texas“.  He mentioned the city of El Paso which set off a little memory in my mind.  This memory is a wonderful song by Marty Robbins, El Paso.  I really enjoy this song because of its tune, it’s story, and that western flavor.

El Paso (song)

El Paso (song) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I hope you enjoy it also. I will provide the lyrics  for you along with the actual song on youtube.  A western song of love, a gunfight, and then a sad ending. Classic I think.

Out in the West Texas town of El Paso
I fell in love with a Mexican girl.
Night-time would find me in Rosa’s cantina;
Music would play and Felina would whirl.

Blacker than night were the eyes of Felina,
Wicked and evil while casting a spell.
My love was deep for this Mexican maiden;
I was in love but in vain, I could tell.

One night a wild young cowboy came in,
Wild as the West Texas wind.
Dashing and daring,
A drink he was sharing
With wicked Felina,
The girl that I loved.

So in anger I Challenged his right for the love of this maiden.
Down went his hand for the gun that he wore.
My challenge was answered in less than a heart-beat;
The handsome young stranger lay dead on the floor.

Just for a moment I stood there in silence,
Shocked by the FOUL EVIL deed I had done.
Many thoughts raced through my mind as I stood there;
I had but one chance and that was to run.

Out through the back door of Rosa’s I ran,
Out where the horses were tied.
I caught a good one.
It looked like it could run.
Up on its back
And away I did ride,

Just as fast as I Could from the West Texas town of El Paso
Out to the bad-lands of New Mexico.

Back in El Paso my life would be worthless.
Everything’s gone in life; nothing is left.
It’s been so long since I’ve seen the young maiden
My love is stronger than my fear of death.

I saddled up and away I did go,
Riding alone in the dark.
Maybe tomorrow
A bullet may find me.
Tonight nothing’s worse than this
Pain in my heart.

And at last here I Am on the hill overlooking El Paso;
I can see Rosa’s cantina below.
My love is strong and it pushes me onward.
Down off the hill to Felina I go.

Off to my right I see five mounted cowboys;
Off to my left ride a dozen or more.
Shouting and shooting I can’t let them catch me.
I have to make it to Rosa’s back door.

Something is dreadfully wrong for I feel
A deep burning pain in my side.
Though I am trying
To stay in the saddle,
I’m getting weary,
Unable to ride.

But my love for

Felina is strong and I rise where I’ve fallen,
Though I am weary I can’t stop to rest.
I see the white puff of smoke from the rifle.
I feel the bullet go deep in my chest.

From out of nowhere Felina has found me,
Kissing my cheek as she kneels by my side.
Cradled by two loving arms that I’ll die for,
One little kiss and Felina, good-bye.

 

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