Life and Random Thinking

What is positive energy? I know what isn’t. Complaining, talking negative. That is not to say that criticism is bad. I think criticism is required. How could I or anyone improve if we were unaware of areas we could improve? How could a target be reached if you could not share changes a person needs to make so they can be successful?

No criticism is unrealistic. But we hate that word, and it seems to us to be so negative. I hope that in the future I can not be a complainer, that is just unhealthy. Let me be someone who is welcomed when I give feedback because it is balanced, helpful, specific and welcomed.

People tend be either left or right brain or the way I see it either emotional or factual. Guys in my opinion are mostly right brain factual. We weigh and analyze and somewhere after youth learn to suppress or hide when we are left brain/emotional.  It’s a loss somehow. That macho personality can prevent real friendships from becoming deeper. Is this true?

We had company a few weeks ago, and one of the company kept saying I was acting like a man or along those lines. I should have asked what she meant.

I don’t mind doing dishes, ok I do but I realize it is fair that I do them and it’s not really so bad. I even enjoy cooking but don’t like to do it alone. So what is macho behavior? I don’t recall grunting or firing off any weapons, so what gives?