Inhaling A Moment

I meant to write a post more quickly after this special day last week but I feel like I’ve been an Okanagan tumbleweed (yes, we have lots of those!) and doctor appointments and life has kept me from planting myself at the keyboard, until now.

I sit here, stitches and all, glad to be reaching out to the fine people who read my posts and my ordinary happenings. I appreciated the encouraging responses to my recent post – HUGS!

Saturday mornings are different, my wife and I go out for breakfast. Afterwards today we were just exploring and we bought a beautiful walnut crib board built in 1962 that was like new and still in the box. The company that built it is named Drueke (Grand Rapids, Michigan) and it was founded in 1914. The history of the company includes building travel board games for the soldiers in 1941 and sending them overseas as part of the war effort.

We found our beautiful cribbage board at a neat community artist store called the Carousel Collective in Summerland.

Writing these Summerland names gives me a smile. A very special person in my life lives in Summerland (love that city’s name) and on Happy Valley Road. I always imagine him giving his address to someone who works in a downtown concrete jungle ave, smog valley city, North America and them reading the address back in disbelief wondering if such a place actually exists.

looking south towards Penticton – right hand man and #1 son – David Jr.

Summerland and Penticton are connected via the Kettle Valley Trail. The Kettle Valley Train used to travel through Summerland and down to Penticton in order to cross over to the east side of the valley and then head east.

Link to Kettle Valley Rail Trail

We are fortunate to be left with these wonderful trails on both sides of the lake to enjoy on our bikes.

looking south from the east side of Okanagan lake

Wind and cooler temperatures from 2023 are now left behind us this week but there were some lingering below zero days last week and blistering winds.

My son and I decided we would inhale the beautiful winter light with a day at the beach instead of a ride.

Our destination was Sunoka beach which is a wonderful park in Summerland and we enjoy bonfires and birthdays on the beach there during the summer months.

This last week was too cold and windy for a shirt-sleeve picnic but it was still a lovely day to embrace and soak up the moments at Sunoka beach so that’s what we did together.

We gathered chairs, a blanket and enjoyed some time there and it was lovely to inhale.

Why I wanted to share this with you is that sometimes I think I am guilty of wanting “ideal” circumstances for moments like this but that day last week is that just being alive was perfect enough for me and I wanted to make another deposit to my memory bank.

Here we are enjoying the day despite the brisk air temperatures at the beach. It was fabulous and we had a first class extraordinary day together.

To add a few closing thoughts; I was very pleased to spot an owl this week just overhead on my street because they are harder to spot than eagles.

Also yesterday we spotted eagles locked together and spiraling to the ground in a death spiral. They unlocked before they hit the ground but it was exciting to watch. I am grateful humans don’t flirt like that!

Those moments are exciting to me and I cherish them especially when they are shared.

Thanks for reading, I reply to all comments- ♥ David

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Stepping back.. on tip toes

I admire many bloggers that I follow. They regularly post and all their posts shine with their individual style and content. They inspire me to return and add my voice.

As I sit here and look out at the zero degree blue winter sky, I am smiling a little. I have never felt anything else but encouragement from the readers on this blog. That’s the kind people you are.

After all these months without posting, I feel like a swimmer who has dried off and now the lake feels cold again.

I am hesitant to get wet, and back in the lake but I know, in my heart, that I will be glad I got off the beach. Even if I question myself as I slowly enter the shallow cold water.

Every time I swim in one of our beautiful lakes, I look forward to the plunge when my head goes under the water, but still I am hesitant to plunge and only tip toe in and that cold water makes me jump when it hits my warm tummy! My toes won’t lift me any higher and my legs won’t get any longer ! LOL

It’s time to plunge in !

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What Matters to You?

Isn’t that an interesting question? I think it might be the best question to ask anyone.

I think so because it opens up what is really important to the light and to be shared. That leads to really knowing and understanding others.

If conversations started that way, what would we learn about each other?

What would you want others to know about you?

Plunge into a real conversation and what will you reveal, what will you learn?

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Valentines Day this year I had an unexpected experience and opportunity. I was asked to be one of the voice actors in a small radio play on the public radio channel here in Penticton.

I nearly said I couldn’t, but that wouldn’t have been true. I nearly said no because I felt unqualified compared to many others I know but instead I said yes. (My inside voice was saying What?)

I said Yes because No leads to nothing, but Yes leads to stories, and adventure. No is easier, but Yes holds promise ♥

On the day of the radio show there was no rehearsal.

I met the author of the play and the other voice actors and I liked their voices, accents and I was thinking “what am I doing here? – these people have nice voices and my voice isn’t.” I certainly doubted myself.

We all moved into the small radio booth, microphones on booms came down close to our heads and we recorded/performed the play on Peach City Community Radio – CFUZ – the play is 5 minutes long and named “My Grumpy Valentine” 

It was done, a quick plunge!

We all enjoyed ourselves, myself included and smiles were in abundance !

What made me really happy was that I said yes to trying something new.

If you want to hear the play and my short interview “Way higher than Zero! ” just after the play is completed – you can download and listen to here on Episode 52 – link to episodes on Local Matters –

Thanks to the sidewalk artist !

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Beauty abounds

Thank you friends for reading today and taking the time to comment. It’s the comments and encouragement that make me as happy as a seagull with French fries. (oops, did I say that? It just slipped out)

Despite living in Penticton for 31 years – I still stop and admire the view and take pictures. Many of my pictures are quite similar – I can’t help it

Skaha Lake near sunset. Dragon boats! There are three in the photo!

One of the spots I enjoy driving to nearby is named Keremeos (pronounced Care-A-Me-Os).

The name originated from the Similkameen dialect of the Okanagan language word “Keremeyeus” meaning “creek which cuts its way through the flats” referring to Keremeos Creek which flows down from the Upper Benchlands to the Similkameen River that flows past the village. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Keremeos)

I love to drive there, about a half hour away, as it’s through some mountain passes, along a small mountain lake and ta-da – you arrive. On my trips there I have seen white mountain sheep, a bear ran across the road in front of me once even.

I sometimes visit the Grist Mill. It’s a spot where you go for a relaxing visit and amazing food, things like salads with edible flowers♥ It’s the kind of treasure spot you wonder why it took you so long to hear about it.

When you eat there, you sit on outdoor picnic tables in the garden. Everyone together. A few dinners are planned now if you want to buy tickets and can get away. – venison meatloaf or crispy skin okanagan salmon. mmmm

Visiting the Grist Mill is so refreshing. It’s a step back and a treat to experience. You walk through the exhibits and the history is alive. (https://www.oldgristmill.ca/)

The owners run the mill respecting it’s heritage and history in everything they do. The history is special – link Huge thank you to them every time I visit.

Last year we visited multiple times and soaked it up and invited family to meet us there – so memorable and most dinners aren’t that.

I also have special friends who live there in Keremeos. One of them took these photos below.

A few nights ago my friend Krystal shared these photos she took while hiking with her hubby. It was nice of her to allow me to share and September 15 is her birthday!

Happy birthday Krystal! Thank you for being such a good friend and not a bad photographer either. (wink)

Krystal and her hubby love the outdoors, travelling and sharing moments like these together and every moment they can with their two daughters.

It’s easy to understand why they love that area, because you’d have to be a few pickles short of barrel not to. (love the Texas sayings ♥)

Plus as you can see – Keremeos is where I go to get my pumpkins for pie in October!

Peach King Orchards has a stand there and I am sure it takes them two WHOLE days to set up their pumpkin display. Outstanding!

Thanks for visiting – I hope you have a wonderful day, and enjoy the bounty of beauty around you♥- David

One final note of wisdom before I exit; this from Linus “It’s the Great Pumpkin”

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What’s your Go To? (I’m Thinking Aloud again)

Thank you for visiting my blog today, I appreciate your precious time as add to my category I call “Thinking Out Loud”

Just a little bloggers warning here = I plan to sprinkle this post with Texas wisdom. (you might groan)

Everyone knows that Texas quips make you happy enough to exclaim “well butter my butt and call me a biscuit!” (lol)

Due to schedules, careers, fires of all types that need to be put out – sometimes getting together with friends is as difficult as putting socks on a rooster.

As a result when I had a special day and reconnected with friends we have missed seeing in the flesh for a few years ; it was especially appreciated to see them and give them hugs.

Now I realize that I missed some opportunities to visit and I have been a few pickles short of barrel by not doing so.

These friends regularly “check in” with us and I love that characteristic of special friends. They have kept in touch and been supportive all through covid and especially when I was on dialysis again back in 2018 and during the recovery time from my transplant surgery in 2019. They are outstanding.

I realized that with some friendships, if we are fortunate, time and distance, don’t diminish the connection.

I know that to lose any of my long time friends would be a regret of mine if it happened.

I recall how awesome it was to get together with friends for a big party for my 60th birthday; they lifted me up as I had just began dialysis again after my 2nd transplant had failed. That they came was the best gift of all.

Losing friends, I conclude is as welcome as a porcupine at a nudist colony.

As we drove away after our dinner with friends; I felt full but not from the food but from the time that I had just spent with them.

I was just as Happy as a boarding house pup.

My wish for my readers is to keep your connections strong – I think a common regret is losing contact with people who have touched our heart in the past. I hope it is a regret we will all avoid – David

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I really enjoy the humor and educational value of the youtuber Vinh Giang and so I wanted to add what I thought of when I watched a recent youtube of his called”menu items”.

Vinh calls them “Menu Items” – link here

I call them “Go To’s” – what it refers to is the activities that allow you to take a breath from a busy life whether it’s career or Life.

These are the things that allow you to think clearly and step back – to “reboot” if you will.

I remember when I used to jog, that hour of slow running became a pleasure once I pushed past the 9th minute. It did something for me; in those days it was a “Go To” even though I didn’t call it that. (I wonder if it was the oxygen or interactions of all the muscles (bilateral stimulation maybe – sounds techy) or perhaps it was the endorphins?

How do you reset? refresh?

I don’t know if it’s juggling, doing puzzles, a pedicure, or hugging someone you love but I hope you give yourself time now and then as a gift. (the best “take out♥)

I suspect my suggestion to take a break occasionally may be as welcome as an outhouse breeze.

Remember, if it’s on your menu, it’s because you love it, and you know you will love it again.

New flowers continue to arrive and I think they are called flowers because when people see them – they beam!

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Life Goes On

Life certainly hasn’t stopped here, the fire goes on to find new fuel and the fight goes on in different locations in this province and elsewhere in Canada.

Link to Emergency Map BC here

Life goes on for the evacuees in West Kelowna also and most have gone home, most delighted that their homes have been spared and they having gained a fresh perspective on their homes and the importance of being prepared.

Life will go on also for those evacuees who have no home to go home to. But sadly, for them it was their possessions that are lost, many precious memories will be lost and nothing will be the same for them.

There are sad stories but also stories of kindness and help from unexpected sources. Headlines shout the loss of homes and tragedy as that sells newspapers. But the survivors themselves are positive mainly and optimistic about the future and they are happy their community survived.

Smoke does augur fire and loss but also opportunities for kindness and unselfishness and those stories are just starting to be heard. Those are heard from people in person, but not on front pages of newspapers unfortunately.

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My son is over 6 feet tall and you can see how much taller the sunflower is.

In Penticton we had rain overnight, and it freshened the air. Yahoo ! I opened the front door that morning and was greeted by a freshness and clean scent to the air that I had always likened to crawling out of a tent. So sweet it smelled to me, yet impossible to duplicate, but wish I could ♥

I stood that morning after the rain and waited silently for quail to appear. First came the small birds, their quick movements and ability to land alight up one one of the 50 or so 8 foot tall sunflowers in the front yard.

The birds alight and twist over the top of the flowers to peck at the seeds precariously. Many sunflowers seem to have smooth foreheads due to the loss of the seeds.

Love the quail and their puffball offspring as they do their calls and run frantically in the neighbourhood underbrush. This guy flew up to my front balcony to survey his domain.

Then the quail arrived, timidly creeping out from the Oregon grape plants. They eat the seeds and small insects and were introduced to the Valley long ago to cut down on weeds (because they eat the seeds). The quail are so cute and often perch on the small brick wall that separates my yard from my neighbor. The width of a brick and yet a superhighway to these plump feathered inhabitants of the city.

In the backyard the tallest of the sunflower reigns supreme with his army of follower plants lined up like troops on parade along the back deck.

New flowers are still bursting forth, late bloomers per se, welcome late arrivals to summer and to the bumble bees who dance in the middle of their yellow flowers to celebrate their arrival. Late for the party these sunflower are perhaps but they continue growing because the warm weather also continues albeit the nights are cooling down. Summer losing it’s grip I suppose but many warm weeks ahead.

Refreshing like the arctic or Skaha lake in the last weeks of August. LOL

Thank you dear friends for stopping by to read this post. I look forward to your comments here and visiting your blogs. – ♥ David

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Catastrophe in the Okanagan Valley

It was only a few days ago that I was shocked to see the catastrophic damage in Maui and I felt shock and concern for those thousands effected. How could it happen? How could it happen so quickly? The property damage there is beyond my comprehension, the tragic loss of history and the lasting, and most hurtful, the shock of lost lives.

I never expected it to happen close to home, and so quickly. But, with a little background, on the weather this year, the writing was on the wall but we didn’t want to believe it or see it.

This has been an especially dry year in the Okanagan valley. Our spring weather is our wettest time of the year usually with rain occasionally, but consistently, until the end of June.

Spring in the valley

This year the rain didn’t arrive, and hasn’t arrived yet.

The sides of the valley that are normally green at the beginning of July have been the colour of straw and tinder dry for a few months.

The worsening conditions of drought, and months of plus 30 degrees Celsius heat has created a situation where in the provinces of BC, Alberta and Saskatchewan the risk factor of major spreading fires has risen consistently. This has lead to hundreds of fires in BC out of control and calls for help from everywhere.

In Penticton and Kelowna, I think we have felt blessed, until a few days ago, that the Okanagan valley close to us has been spared despite news of over three hundred fires elsewhere in our beautiful province of B.C.

At this time the evacuation of people continues to increase exponentially and affects more than 35,000 people, thousands of homes. The fire has spread to both sides of the valley, with embers carried by high heat over the 2.5 kilometre wide lake in Kelowna.

Yesterday the different fires surrounded Penticton in three separate directions and the normally blue skies have now been dull brown for days and you can taste the smoke when you open your doors and windows.

I think we all feel on edge, and tense. I sure do.

Everyone in the valley is touched by this event. Loss of life has not been reported, thankfully, and we hope that situation remains in the days ahead.

Sadly, many people don’t know the status of their homes, (are they still standing?) or their work locations. But whether the fires incinerate subdivisions or not, this fire has been a catastrophe that a week ago we didn’t see coming.

I think sustained rain is the cure we are praying for, along with continued strength, and safety for the firefighters, and for the crews from everywhere that have come to help in these dire circumstances.

We pray, of course, that homes will be spared also and as few as possible destroyed because we know many are already gone and the fire and smoke is continuing.

Thank you for reading and your kind thoughts and prayers for the thousands and thousands effected by the West Kelowna, and many other related fires in the Canadian Okanagan Valley.

Take care please – ♥♥ David

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