What’s your Go To? (I’m Thinking Aloud again)

Thank you for visiting my blog today, I appreciate your precious time as add to my category I call “Thinking Out Loud”

Just a little bloggers warning here = I plan to sprinkle this post with Texas wisdom. (you might groan)

Everyone knows that Texas quips make you happy enough to exclaim “well butter my butt and call me a biscuit!” (lol)

Due to schedules, careers, fires of all types that need to be put out – sometimes getting together with friends is as difficult as putting socks on a rooster.

As a result when I had a special day and reconnected with friends we have missed seeing in the flesh for a few years ; it was especially appreciated to see them and give them hugs.

Now I realize that I missed some opportunities to visit and I have been a few pickles short of barrel by not doing so.

These friends regularly “check in” with us and I love that characteristic of special friends. They have kept in touch and been supportive all through covid and especially when I was on dialysis again back in 2018 and during the recovery time from my transplant surgery in 2019. They are outstanding.

I realized that with some friendships, if we are fortunate, time and distance, don’t diminish the connection.

I know that to lose any of my long time friends would be a regret of mine if it happened.

I recall how awesome it was to get together with friends for a big party for my 60th birthday; they lifted me up as I had just began dialysis again after my 2nd transplant had failed. That they came was the best gift of all.

Losing friends, I conclude is as welcome as a porcupine at a nudist colony.

As we drove away after our dinner with friends; I felt full but not from the food but from the time that I had just spent with them.

I was just as Happy as a boarding house pup.

My wish for my readers is to keep your connections strong – I think a common regret is losing contact with people who have touched our heart in the past. I hope it is a regret we will all avoid – David

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I really enjoy the humor and educational value of the youtuber Vinh Giang and so I wanted to add what I thought of when I watched a recent youtube of his called”menu items”.

Vinh calls them “Menu Items” – link here

I call them “Go To’s” – what it refers to is the activities that allow you to take a breath from a busy life whether it’s career or Life.

These are the things that allow you to think clearly and step back – to “reboot” if you will.

I remember when I used to jog, that hour of slow running became a pleasure once I pushed past the 9th minute. It did something for me; in those days it was a “Go To” even though I didn’t call it that. (I wonder if it was the oxygen or interactions of all the muscles (bilateral stimulation maybe – sounds techy) or perhaps it was the endorphins?

How do you reset? refresh?

I don’t know if it’s juggling, doing puzzles, a pedicure, or hugging someone you love but I hope you give yourself time now and then as a gift. (the best “take out♥)

I suspect my suggestion to take a break occasionally may be as welcome as an outhouse breeze.

Remember, if it’s on your menu, it’s because you love it, and you know you will love it again.

New flowers continue to arrive and I think they are called flowers because when people see them – they beam!

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Life Goes On

Life certainly hasn’t stopped here, the fire goes on to find new fuel and the fight goes on in different locations in this province and elsewhere in Canada.

Link to Emergency Map BC here

Life goes on for the evacuees in West Kelowna also and most have gone home, most delighted that their homes have been spared and they having gained a fresh perspective on their homes and the importance of being prepared.

Life will go on also for those evacuees who have no home to go home to. But sadly, for them it was their possessions that are lost, many precious memories will be lost and nothing will be the same for them.

There are sad stories but also stories of kindness and help from unexpected sources. Headlines shout the loss of homes and tragedy as that sells newspapers. But the survivors themselves are positive mainly and optimistic about the future and they are happy their community survived.

Smoke does augur fire and loss but also opportunities for kindness and unselfishness and those stories are just starting to be heard. Those are heard from people in person, but not on front pages of newspapers unfortunately.

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My son is over 6 feet tall and you can see how much taller the sunflower is.

In Penticton we had rain overnight, and it freshened the air. Yahoo ! I opened the front door that morning and was greeted by a freshness and clean scent to the air that I had always likened to crawling out of a tent. So sweet it smelled to me, yet impossible to duplicate, but wish I could ♥

I stood that morning after the rain and waited silently for quail to appear. First came the small birds, their quick movements and ability to land alight up one one of the 50 or so 8 foot tall sunflowers in the front yard.

The birds alight and twist over the top of the flowers to peck at the seeds precariously. Many sunflowers seem to have smooth foreheads due to the loss of the seeds.

Love the quail and their puffball offspring as they do their calls and run frantically in the neighbourhood underbrush. This guy flew up to my front balcony to survey his domain.

Then the quail arrived, timidly creeping out from the Oregon grape plants. They eat the seeds and small insects and were introduced to the Valley long ago to cut down on weeds (because they eat the seeds). The quail are so cute and often perch on the small brick wall that separates my yard from my neighbor. The width of a brick and yet a superhighway to these plump feathered inhabitants of the city.

In the backyard the tallest of the sunflower reigns supreme with his army of follower plants lined up like troops on parade along the back deck.

New flowers are still bursting forth, late bloomers per se, welcome late arrivals to summer and to the bumble bees who dance in the middle of their yellow flowers to celebrate their arrival. Late for the party these sunflower are perhaps but they continue growing because the warm weather also continues albeit the nights are cooling down. Summer losing it’s grip I suppose but many warm weeks ahead.

Refreshing like the arctic or Skaha lake in the last weeks of August. LOL

Thank you dear friends for stopping by to read this post. I look forward to your comments here and visiting your blogs. – ♥ David

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Catastrophe in the Okanagan Valley

It was only a few days ago that I was shocked to see the catastrophic damage in Maui and I felt shock and concern for those thousands effected. How could it happen? How could it happen so quickly? The property damage there is beyond my comprehension, the tragic loss of history and the lasting, and most hurtful, the shock of lost lives.

I never expected it to happen close to home, and so quickly. But, with a little background, on the weather this year, the writing was on the wall but we didn’t want to believe it or see it.

This has been an especially dry year in the Okanagan valley. Our spring weather is our wettest time of the year usually with rain occasionally, but consistently, until the end of June.

Spring in the valley

This year the rain didn’t arrive, and hasn’t arrived yet.

The sides of the valley that are normally green at the beginning of July have been the colour of straw and tinder dry for a few months.

The worsening conditions of drought, and months of plus 30 degrees Celsius heat has created a situation where in the provinces of BC, Alberta and Saskatchewan the risk factor of major spreading fires has risen consistently. This has lead to hundreds of fires in BC out of control and calls for help from everywhere.

In Penticton and Kelowna, I think we have felt blessed, until a few days ago, that the Okanagan valley close to us has been spared despite news of over three hundred fires elsewhere in our beautiful province of B.C.

At this time the evacuation of people continues to increase exponentially and affects more than 35,000 people, thousands of homes. The fire has spread to both sides of the valley, with embers carried by high heat over the 2.5 kilometre wide lake in Kelowna.

Yesterday the different fires surrounded Penticton in three separate directions and the normally blue skies have now been dull brown for days and you can taste the smoke when you open your doors and windows.

I think we all feel on edge, and tense. I sure do.

Everyone in the valley is touched by this event. Loss of life has not been reported, thankfully, and we hope that situation remains in the days ahead.

Sadly, many people don’t know the status of their homes, (are they still standing?) or their work locations. But whether the fires incinerate subdivisions or not, this fire has been a catastrophe that a week ago we didn’t see coming.

I think sustained rain is the cure we are praying for, along with continued strength, and safety for the firefighters, and for the crews from everywhere that have come to help in these dire circumstances.

We pray, of course, that homes will be spared also and as few as possible destroyed because we know many are already gone and the fire and smoke is continuing.

Thank you for reading and your kind thoughts and prayers for the thousands and thousands effected by the West Kelowna, and many other related fires in the Canadian Okanagan Valley.

Take care please – ♥♥ David

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Family Day ♥ – Robbed at Gunpoint

It’s the truth, on August 6th – we had a special day planned on the Kettle Valley Railway and we were robbed at gunpoint.

However, we expected it, planned for it, and the money went to charity! ♥

My dear son’s birthday is August 9th and this is our third annual birthday Kettle Valley ride on the steam train.

We ride on open-air cars and it’s fun, extremely memorable and a treat to boot. You never know what you will see animal wise, as we saw a bear a couple years ago. (Mind you, we had a bear and three cubs in town last week also and so we know they are around).

This year, to be different, I booked us for the Train Robbery and barbeque event. On the train the sheriff (dressed in western clothes and wearing a gun belt) is on board to protect us from the infamous Garnet Valley gang. Sadly he has a terrible record of protecting the train which he admits – zero time so far! 🙂

The dozen or so riders ride up and down the train putting on a show, and firing off their pistols. When our money and robbers depart – the sheriff (then) boldly stands up to and fires his gun to fend them off, albeit after the fact, and too late to prevent the Gang from leaving with our money. ♥

The train resumes with plume of steam and blowing of the whistle.

Soon everyone is enjoying a fulsome barbeque together, more food than needed of course, so the Garnet Gang joins the meal and celebration in full leathers and chaps, even posing for pictures.

A great day is had by all!

  • A little trivia – the Garnet Gang are all volunteers and some travel a long distance at their own expense. They provide their own costumes, and travel expenses and horses of course. They have been robbing the train for 27 years, raising money and entertaining train passengers and in the process over the years they have donated plus $250,000 to the group of charities in the Okanagan.
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Road Trip to Peachland

Hello readers, hello friends, thank you sincerely for visiting today.

When you drive for an hour and you live in a big city; what is your scenery? In the big cities I have visited and lived in, the scenery was all commercial. Gas stations, malls, fast food outlets and concrete buildings and intersection after intersection.

In less than ten minutes, going either north or south, I am driving along a highway (nonstop) with a view of nature and usually a lake.

So I love taking a road trip and enjoy the view on the way and back also! Yesterday my son and I went about 25 minutes north to Peachland, past Summerland but not too far.

One one such road trip last fall we were driving to visit one of my favorite fruit stands when a black bear suddenly dashed across the pavement ahead of us and he was nearly close enough I could smell the berries on his breath. Tasty!

The views on the highway range from mountain goats to bald eagles; and I get excited seeing it ALL.

So I love a road trip, like the one I did yesterday with my son. We took a drive north to Peachland. Our destination was Antlers beach; I like it there because the water is clear and the current keeps it extra fresh (refreshing) plus it gets deep really quick so just two steps – than DIVE!

(Antler’s beach is also close to a really nice waterfall where in late August we enjoy the kokanee who spawn in that creek which are land locked salmon. See below the two photos from last year at Hardy Falls park – it won’t be long before we head back there to see them again. It’s very interesting.)

I have gotten smarter also, I now bring watershoes to Antlers beach as it doesn’t offer the nice sand that the local beaches at home tempt me with. But yesterday I was immune to the rocks due to the tire tread on the watershoes and we both enjoyed a lovely swim. A long cool swim and float!

Looking forward to your comments♥ Dave

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Chipmunks, tiny Quail, and a steam train

I had an exhausting ride a few days ago with my son. I loved it, all three or so hours of bike riding in July heat.

So many trails here but I chose to ride a trail I haven’t ridden much for years, the KVR.

The Kettle Valley Railway (KVR) is on both sides of the Okanagan lake. Penticton (where I live) is the converging point which the train passed through before continuing either east or west.

The east side of the lake is easier to ride as the trail is much better maintained and the one I have ridden mainly for the last decade. A few days ago I rode the west side where the deserted trail winds up north towards Summerland before heading to the coast.

I hope you have 120 seconds time to read my previous post which highlights the little tunnel on the west side of the lake. LINK HERE The view is amazing, it’s like being in a plane and so pretty – a long long ride but worth it.

On the west side of the Okanagan lake the trail is also very pretty but sandy and hard to ride with my skinny bike tires.

Fewer cyclists on the west side lead to my being surprised by the stripe of a chipmunk tail and he scampered along the trail ahead of us, tail held high! ♥ And then another♥

Also were many quail, they are prolific near my home but it always squeezes my heart to see the first born. They seem to have them by dozen and they aren’t much bigger than puffballs.

My destination on my recent ride was Summerland,via crossing the highest trestle bridge on the KVR. Then just a hop skip and a jump (very near ride) to Summerland Sweets (fruit treats of all kinds and pancake syrups) for an ice cream cone before turning around and riding home.

Our timing must have been perfect as we arrived just in time to see the steam train, hear the whistle blow and we hustled across before we got stuck on the wrong side which meant no ice cream. 🙂

I slept well that night and we drank all the water we had!

If you come to Penticton – enjoy the train and trout creek trestle whether you ride there like we did or not. Plus if you love pancakes – visit the nearby Summerland Sweets – explore the store and rest your feet in the shade with your choice of ice cream flavours. Yesterday Dave had mocha chocolate fudge and I had root beer float !

Thanks for dropping by! 😉 hugs – David

PS – here you can view the trestle from the air – Youtube link

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