Everyone has been N’d by someone, and glad for it

You probably know someone who is really good at N‘ing.

Maybe you have N“d a few times especially after someone N’d you and you appreciated it.

Most of us need a little N now and then because we get complacent or lack confidence.

Nudging is what I am talking about. 

Nudging can be a gentle push, or a prod to get someone’s attention.  Your beloved does it, you may tag it another “N” word but it really nudging you mean.

Sometimes we are lucky enough to know someone who mentors us, or watches over us, nudging us gently to do or not do something. Perhaps we hesitate because of fear, or lack of confidence, and that gentle nudge propels us to changes that improve our entire lives.

blind datePerhaps you were nudged into a blind date and met your beloved.

Perhaps you were nudged to apply for a job that changed your entire life trajectory.

Perhaps you were the Nudger, and if you are, ……….Bravo!

I suggest that nearly everyday there is someone in our life that needs a nudge, maybe it’s to count their blessings, maybe it’s to go for a walk with a friend or to call a friend, to  write a letter to someone for a surprise AND if you can’t find someone in your life that needs a nudge today, probably the person who needs a nudge is you.

Give a little N to someone you care about today.

What do you think? Nudge, Nudge

(wink) Thanks for reading, your thoughts, and comments are valuable to me.

get smart


About dfolstad58

I live in the South Okanagan. BC. I enjoy reading, exercise, toastmasters. spending time with my son, my daughter, & her husband , and my patient wife. I try to respond personally to every comment on my blog, and in this way I hope to get to know my readers a little bit and and am able to thank readers for their encouragement on what they liked and suggestions on what they would like to see me try in order to improve.
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