Ladies blog topics – Millions! Men bloggers, not so much.

Friendly reader, are you surprised by my statement that women have it way easier having ideas to blog about.

Perhaps you disagree? You think it is equal or even that men have it easier.
I beg to differ. You see women observe details better and they like to talk about things even little things that men notice (sometimes) but don’t care to talk about.

My example – if I am playing a game of tennis with men, during the match, games are won and lost and sides are switched. Not much talking goes on, except a little bit of friendly chest beating and promises of a killer rebound match.

get smartHowever, I have been invited to play tennis with ladies (when they are missing a regular, obviously) and still want to play doubles. I am the token male then and they don’t talk much to me, and merely focus on kicking my male butt.

But in the changeovers between games, they top and chat, going on and on about each other’s shoes, skirts, and where did they buy them, and blah blah blah.

You see? A guy has never come up to me and asked where did I buy my runners, or how he likes my tshirt, never!

My point is, and certainly not applicable for every lady out there, but women are superior in the interaction of small talk, and are even curious. This allows them to graduate to bigger ideas and more personal subjects gradually. Small talk graduates!

am I a sitting duck?

am I a sitting duck?

Men leapfrog to what they want to talk about, and have to learn to start first with weather, hobbies, and to venture slowly into opinions and personal. The art of small talk, a learned skill and some of us men are cavemen at this skill.

Blogging small talk is a skill also, and women can simply share their latest color of lip gloss and know in their heart, that ladies will enjoy hearing about it, and seeing the shade color as well. I know because I saw a blog just like it today.

Me, I’m sitting on the corner watching the world go by – viva la difference of men and women!


Blog away men and women, am I wrong? Is this suggestion wrong?

Thanks, for reading!

About dfolstad58

I live in the South Okanagan. BC. I enjoy reading, exercise, toastmasters. spending time with my son, my daughter, & her husband , and my patient wife. I try to respond personally to every comment on my blog, and in this way I hope to get to know my readers a little bit and and am able to thank readers for their encouragement on what they liked and suggestions on what they would like to see me try in order to improve.
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2 Responses to Ladies blog topics – Millions! Men bloggers, not so much.

  1. Ahhh you know the secret, now we will have to kill you 😉


  2. Haha…. I agree with the point that there are a good number of beauty blogs and we enjoy reading them. But, males have a lot of things to talk about, too. Latest car, gadgets or ongoing cricket/football/baseball series. (Though I enjoy all these things equally) 😀


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