Tight-lipped Thursday

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Welcome to “Life and Random Thinking”

– the owner of which is having trouble remembering the day of the week it is!  Mea Culpa ♥

Instead of Wordless Wednesday, I found an alternate – Tight-lipped Thursday.

Thanks for dropping by – David ♥

Thanks to the encouragement of my family  I tackled Giant’s Head Mountain in Summerland twice recently, these pics are from the first climb.  Captions for you! 

Giant’s Head is named for it’s profile of a face when viewed from the southeast. The peak is the remnant of a shattered volcano and is about 500 metres above Okanagan lake.

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Today, not tomorrow

Thank you for visiting my blog. 

Yesterday I had a thought for a post,  I hope you will let me know your thoughts. = David

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Today, not tomorrow

Today I can begin.  Today, not tomorrow

I start today to be better. Today, not tomorrow

Today, I will forgive you. Today, not tomorrow

Today I will tell you are important, and you are special. Today I will tell you I want you to be safe, to be happy, to be healthy.  Today, not tomorrow

Today I will be kind to myself, I will judge myself with kindness. Today I will let go of grudges, I will be accepting.  Today, not tomorrow

Today I will plant a seed. A seed of love, of life, of living

Today, not tomorrow.

I begin now, a life without regret.

Now, not later.

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Dear Mom & Dad, thank you so much

Today I was walking in the rain

and sharing with my son (again) about some of the many gifts I have received from my parents.

My parents gave my brother and I wonderful gifts and experiences growing up.  But there were some gifts I  received that have lasted my lifetime, and I have tried to pass some of them forward.

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I love to read

My home always had books growing up, we went to the library at least once a week.  I read comic books, I read the Hardy Boy mysteries, I read Freddy the Pig adventures … I read and I read.

It seemed natural for me growing up for everyone in the family to quietly read, on the couch, at the table, or even laying on the grass outside.

I still love reading, and what a limitless gift it has been in my life, and in my career to have a love of reading and an ability to focus.

I love to learn

I often watched documentaries growing up with my parents. My parents gave me learning gifts many years at Christmas time, including:

  • chemistry sets
  • microscope (it was really neat and had it’s own briefcase)
  • steam engine

I love to try to do-it-myself

Both of my parents were handy. My Mom was artistic, and painted, drew, and made cards. Some of most priceless keepsakes are ones that my Mom made including a pencil drawing of my dog Tiger.

My Dad worked on do-it-yourself projects and changed his own oil and so on.

I learned quickly I didn’t have Mom’s talent but I was able to cut the grass, wash a car, change my oil,  do small art projects.

I don’t (usually) let fear of failure prevent my attempting something new

Dad did all types of projects that he taught himself. He made root beer, wine, sushi, put a cement floor in our garage, he built a garage door, he did flooring and plumbing, and much more.

I think that lesson about not being afraid to fail has been a wonderful gift.

If not for that I would never have tried so many things in my life  including:

  • run a 10K
  • learned to ride a bike
  • gone on road trips
  • taken tai chi classes
  • taken step classes
  • joined Toastmasters
  • tried all types of home projects

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Thanks Mom & Dad for the many, many ways you gave and still give to my life.  The memories and the lessons aren’t forgotten, in fact I treasure them. – David

 

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French fries and Bulls eyes

Today’s post is the 9th instalment of CB and PB’s story.

The first post was Spread Your Wings .  After I wrote that post, the next two instalments (part 1 and part 2) were what happened the day Ravi left home. 

Ravi left his parents home to go to a new city, a new life, a new job.

If you are new to the series, I hope you will enjoy the story from the beginning with Spread Your Wings .                                   

Thanks for coming along. ♥ – David

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Ravi and Marie followed Vita home in Ravi’s car, the rusty brown Honda civic was reliable even though it had holes in the fenders.  Vita was worried about noises she heard outside at her home, and Ravi was going to help investigate by hiding a motion-activated wildlife camera outside her home.  If someone was prowling her house at night, the camera would take a video and prove it and maybe identify the prowler.

Vita parked in her driveway, and Ravi parked in front of her house. Vita’s home was lovely older white wooden house about 25 years old, with blue shutters beside the windows and flowers alongside the sidewalk. A wrap-around porch was at the front of the house and it overlooked the lawn and the street. Ravi and Marie imagined it was relaxing to sit on the porch in the warm weather. The yard had a beautiful oak tree that towered over the porch with a clear view of the house front door.

Ravi used Vita’s stepladder and climbed up to the top step to place the wildlife camera about 8 feet (2.5 metres) above the ground. The camera hung on two nails he pounded in and he aimed the camera lens at the house porch and front door.

“The camera is designed to video animals without scaring them, it works silently, and is activated by movement Vita”, Ravi explained.  “I have put the camera up where it will be in the dark, but it is designed for filming in the forest with no more light than the stars. I can come back tomorrow and see if we film anything, it can be set off by raccoons, so it will certainly work to see if anyone is around your house at night.”

Vita thanked him with a hug, and invited both Marie and Ravi inside, tempting them with coffee and cinnamon buns. At the mention of cinnamon buns, Marie blushed, and Ravi smiled.

Vita already knew of course that Ravi bought cinnamon buns regularly but did not know their significance to Marie.  Ravi wisely did not share his nickname for Marie was CB for cinnamon buns. That nickname was for Ravi and Marie alone.

They all went inside for coffee, treats and a tour of Vita’s house.

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Vita concluded her tour of her home in the kitchen where the coffee and treats were already waiting,  warm and wafting the scent of cinnamon and sugar.

Vita explained as she poured the coffee; “So you see, I moved to Gravelberg because I inherited this house from my uncle. It is a beautiful home but I will probably have to move into an apartment because I am so busy with my coffee shop.  I don’t have time to care for a house and yard and I don’t need so much room. I feel lonely in a big house, all alone.”

Ravi looked around, silently he wondered if Vita’s house was a solution to him. He was living in a small basement suite and wanted to move, but wasn’t sure how or if he should ask Vita if she wanted a tenant?  He would love to care for her yard, plus he could do the little do-it-yourself projects for her.

Marie was very quiet also, but her mind was racing ” I wonder if Vita would like a tenant here? I love this old house, and I hate living all alone also”.

An hour later, the three friends hugged and promised to have dinner tomorrow and check the camera to see it captured a video of the prowler. They might have to check more than one night just to be certain, a prowler would not be there every night, would he? Tomorrow for their potluck dinner Marie would bring salad, Ravi would bring fried chicken and Vita would provide french fries! Marie, Ravi, and Vita loved french fries with a little rosemary and baked in the oven.

Ravi assured Vita “the camera is aimed at your porch with a bulls-eye on the front door”,  and “if you feel nervous tonight, Marie and I will stay and keep you company tonight. I can see your couch folds down and I could sleep there.”

Vita hugged them both, with tears in her eyes, she thanked them, and asked them both to stay over.  She needed the sleep and it was a big house with 4 bedrooms and lots of room.

Later the three friends all relaxed and watched Henry Fonda, and Anthony Quinn in the old western movie “Warlock”.

It was nearly eleven o’clock when the lights winked out from inside the house and the only sound was crickets in the yard.

The only light from the streetlights, and peaceful.

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Soon after they were all asleep

a blue pickup truck drove silently  past Vita’s house.  It paused on the street, the driver staring long and hard at Ravi’s Honda parked there, then the truck drove not too far down the street and parked, turning off the truck’s engine and lights.

The driver then walked purposely back to the Honda, and then systematically stabbed all four tires in the sidewalls, producing flat tires on all sides.

He stood there, his hands on his hips, breathing hard and holding the guilty screwdriver in his hand and then stomped back to his truck.

He then drove away, after spitting out the window, his only regret he hadn’t smashed the windshield also.

He pounded his fist on the steering wheel.

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The camera was quiet, undisturbed on the oak tree the lens focused on the bullseye of the porch, all ready to capture movement of any kind.

It was still there, photographing Ravi when he left the house in the morning, and then returning 38 seconds later, to share his news to Marie.

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Sock it to me

Welcome to “Life and Random Thinking” – I have included some links today for readers to hop to other internet pages for more information on some topics. 

Thank you for your interest in my blog!, your ideas and feedback are welcome- David

 

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Sat here one morning looking down at Skaha Lake (north end) – a different view perspective ♥

It’s spring in the Okanagan valley, but when it comes to rain 

‘Sock it to me”

In the Okanagan valleysnow is melting and the creeks are flowing heavy down into the lakes.  As the weather improves so will the lake temperature but only the bravest dip their toes, or anything else into the lakes, until at least mid-June.

Light rain this morning in the valley means my grass is looking lush and forest green. Even the hills of this dry valley are enjoying a little green instead of their normal desert brown.  This extra rain I hope will translate into a summer that will have fewer forest fires.  Forest fires and smoke have terrorized the valley in some of the recent years.

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‘Sock it to me”

was a Goldie Hawn phrase, way back, wayyyy baaack in the days of the sketch comedy television show Rowan and Martin . It was on television from 1968 to 1973.

I know none of my blogging friends will remember, but you can ask your grandparents (or your spouse) about the show.  (chuckle)

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‘Sock it to me”

I was putting on my shoes in the foyer with my son the other day and I spotted his two different colour socks, one blue and one grey. 

“I have a set just like those!” I pointed out jokingly.

I loved what he said next and quickly jotted it down so I could share it with you.

Different colour socks are cool. 

Why live your whole life wearing same colour socks when you go out. 

Rebel a little, so what if it seems silly to someone else.

It won’t hurt anyone. 

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Perhaps Frank Sinatra sang it best in “Young at Heart”

Don’t you know that it’s worth
Every treasure on earth to be young at heart
For as rich as you are
It’s much better by far to be young at heart

How wonderful it would be if now and then we just said “Look out world, different colour socks coming your way!  I’m Socking It To You! ”

 

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Remain seated while the ride is in motion

when I was on a trip and visited the Grand Canyon, there was a glass walkway I could walk out on and look more than a mile down.

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My heart pounded at first when I stepped out in my slippers (so the glass doesn’t get scratched) and looked down.   Wayyyyyy down !

But the fear didn’t last.

 

I stayed out on the glass walkway for about an hour and by the end of the hour I was relaxed and confident. 

I made light of the danger as the minutes ticked by, because I was safe. I was totally safe but I can see how people can get complacent even when the situation is basically unchanged.  Does that make sense to you?

Today

Many of us are fortunate enough to not be infected with the Covid virus and as time goes on, we may feel immune to the danger or belittle the seriousness of an infection.

Here’s Why COVID-19 is Much Worse Than The Flu

I think the possibility of losing my life, or causing someone else to lose their life is a gamble I cannot risk.

The time to evaluate the pandemic response is not during the pandemic.

Just like when the roller coaster plummets down the first hill, don’t take off your seat belt then.

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My friends, the time to evaluate how dangerous a roller coaster ride is not while on your ride, it’s when your standing on the ground, and safe.

So Please remain seated while the ride is in motion. ♥

 

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