Pets, the critters get under the skin, lucky us

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When I was a young tyke, my family lived in a small town, Quesnel, BC.  It seems a kind of Mayberry and that would make me Opie I suppose.  (are you whistling the…

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Don’t try to fix it? But I can fix it!

I am happy to reblog one of my posts from six years ago, I hope you enjoy it and comment. 🤗🌻😁

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I really enjoy this video which hits the nail, pardon me,  is right on target on explaining what happens sometimes when guys try to listen.

Okay, I don’t have any authority to speak for 2.5 billion guys, I got it. Speaking only for myself, I like to fix problems, especially if I consider it my job.

My job is to fix, lift, tote, fetch, carry, open, close, pull, replace, cover, empty, fill, wash, replace, cook, wash, and other related duties.

dave sr youngLadies, do you want us to listen or fix? Since you must know we like to fix, maybe you should talk to someone who just wants to listen when you don’t want us to act? Or, I say this only in fun, just talk to us when we are watching sports, because then we can say “uh huh, and uh huh” and everyone is happy.

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Just Standing there, and I’m a believer

2013-07-02 16.30.07.jpgAllan wasn’t old enough  to really complain of a broken heart.  He wasn’t feeling hopeless, and he had happy memories with the girlfriends he had had. The funk he was feeling possibly was because he was a romantic and expected to find his “always and forever” effortlessly.

Allan wasn’t even really that sad after the first 24 hours of his breakups. First of all he knew he was young and second he was a natural optimist.  The tears were out of his system,  he mentally shook like a wet dog and promised not to look back….. at least until tomorrow.

Allan just decided to stop looking for the right girl, instead he would just relax,  enjoy life and the summer that remained.


 

Sadness couldn’t linger  either with Mary, she was a healthy young woman and being outdoors in fresh air wearing her jeans naturally made her reject blue thoughts with every breath she drank in.

Mary lived minutes from pine trees and camp fires just north of her city.  Her car was old, but dependable and when she filled it up with campfire essentials like marshmallows and firewood, she needn’t worry about scratches. Tonight was going to a night to relax with friends, some fun.

Old jeans, snacks, matches and cold water – she looked forward to building a fire with her group of friends and watching the sparks float up as the night settled.

But she wasn’t looking for anyone special, certainly not someone just standing there.


 

Part of Allan’s plan to enjoy life included making new friends,  and it had been awhile since he had done just that.

Today he said yes to joining a new friend for a loose gathering around a campfire,  music and gazing into embers.

No expectations except introducing himself to a new group.

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skaha lake again

Little did he know that he would meet that night, not only a young woman who looked great in jeans, but also the woman he would grow to love, and he would grow old with.

But there she was, just standing there.

 

 

I thought love was only true in fairy tales
Meant for someone else but not for me
Love was out to get me
That’s the way it seemed
Disappointment haunted all of my dreams
Then I saw her face, now I’m a believer
Not a trace of doubt in my mind
I’m in love
I’m a believer, I couldn’t leave her if I tried
I thought love was more or less a giving thing
Seems the more I gave the less I got
What’s the use in tryin’
All you get is pain?
When I needed sunshine, I got rain
Then I saw her face, now I’m a believer
Not a trace of doubt in my mind
I’m in love
I’m a believer, I couldn’t leave her if I tried –    musical link here I’m a believer (The Monkees)

But you aren’t a fan of the 1966 hit of The Monkees – you might like this link instead for the Beatles.

Thanks for reading and I appreciate your comments especially.  I started off this post originally thinking of the song, I saw her standing there by the FAB FOUR.  I decided not because of the lyrics about dancing. When I met the gal I married, it was at a campsite and I saw her standing there. 

 Once I met her, I was smitten. Six months after that first date on August 6th we were married, and it’ll be 40 years this August 6th. 

YOU can jump to the  next chapter by clicking here. 

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Time is A’wasting

One of my favorites, I hope you enjoy!
Happy Canada Day July 1st!
Happy 4th of July to my American friends!

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“We have coffee here” she said, “It’s a waste to go out.” she said, when her husband suggested they go have coffee.

“Come on” he persisted, trying to overcome the inertia, feeling restless as he tugged with his eyes.

“We’ll walk” he said as he locked the door.

At the end of the driveway, their hands automatically sought each other, naturally fitting together after all the years, all the walks, all the handholding.

He smiled, breathed deep and it was a good day. You could not tell from the weather but his heart felt lighter with her hand in his.

fingers 3It was a short walk to the coffee shop. They talked about little things, and it was good to chat about their stuff. The coffee shop was practically empty. Youngish coffee barista’s encouraged them to buy food but they stuck to their coffee, his dark, and hers something latte made…

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Can’t Take That Away from Me

No, no, you can’t take that away from …..me 🌻🌻🌻

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blue sky Bruce walked down the path, just plain packed earth .  The path wound through a light forest,  absorbing his steps and so he moved silently.

Sunlight patches here and there were like stepping through hot wading pools at the ocean.  All around him, birds twittering and squirrels chirps but none of this smashed the peace and calm of his surroundings.

It was moments like these that Bruce recharged upon. The serene peace in the forest somehow lifting his spirits effortlessly, calming his thoughts. lifting up moments.

It had been three years since the funeral, all the stages of grief just speed bumps in his past. The memories of moments shared now had no sting, or not much.

Funny the little moments that tweaked his face into a grin. When they had a flat tire in the rain and she defused the situation with a song and dance while he changed the…

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Just Breathe,

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My front yard cactus have flowers !

I went to my front yard this morning and the cactus are flowering,  and it reminded me of good advice.

Cactus are a hardy plant, and live in sometimes the worst conditions but they hang in there and manage to blossom. They just breathe and wait for better conditions.

I went to the wound clinic this morning, everything is improving on that front, and the young lady had a tattoo on her arm that reminded me of good advice.

My wound techie probably sees horrific wounds and has to deal with the healing process with someone over time and only seeing healing gradually.  They know patients must Just breathe and let the process go forward albeit how slowly.

A few weeks ago, I had minor procedure in the doctor’s office (I will spare you the details) and it was brief and I was reminded of some good advice under those circumstances. 

When I was going through the office procedure I needed to stay calm as the discomfort was minor, I just needed to avoid being tense, and just breathe.

Today at the hospital renal clinic, I recalled a beautiful family trip and when I saw the coliseum and the Sistine Chapel – that same advice was applicable.

When I was on holiday, I was stunned to find myself in such beautiful and historic surroundings. I had to stop and just breathe, just breathe and soak in the memory. Just Breathe and be in the moment.

Under the worst and under the best situations, remember to just breathe.  That’s it, just remember to breathe.

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Okanagan Lake at the North end of town, a peaceful morning.

Never stop,  under the worst, or the best situations.  Just breathe – Just breathe. It always is good advice. 

Just breathe. 

Just breathe.

Thanks for reading, and I hope you liked this post. All feedback is welcome. – Dave

 

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