1986 – My First Kidney Transplant – [part 1]

Welcome to “Life and Random Thinking” and thank you for visiting.

My next three posts will be a change in topic because my health battles have been a big part of my life.

My next three posts I have decided to write as I celebrate my third anniversary of my third kidney transplant in 2019. I am so grateful to still be around, and it’s due to the generosity and friendship of a kind man.

In each post I will try to keep my comments brief and leave out the countless steps in between. I apologize since the first post is lengthy but the others are not. – David

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In 1980 I became a husband after I found and married my wife in a whirlwind. We had our first date August 6th, 1979 and were married March 8, 1980. When you find someone that special, you want to be with them always. It turned out I would need her strength and love over the years ahead many, many times.

1990s and dressed up

In 1983 we celebrated with the birth of our daughter in October but in July of that year I could no longer manage daily life without life assistance in the form of dialysis due to kidney failure. In July I went to Vancouver General in renal failure. They operated on me to insert a tube into my abdomen – about twelve inches of tube was inserted inside and another foot protruded from my abdomen which I taped there and hid under my shirt. So it began.

That dialysis was four times a day, every day. I did a portable type of dialysis and carried a gym bag to work so I could go to a small room for my 30 minute lunch break daily and carry it out before going back to my desk.

This dialysis is called CAPD (Continuous Ambulatory Peritoneal Dialysis). Continuous because you do it 24 hours a day. Ambulatory which means portable and Peritoneal because that is the name of the abdomen cavity where the fluid sits in a persons body while they do dialysis. The lining of this cavity filters the fluid drawn out from the body.

My routine was to get up early and drain my abdomen using the tube which involved hooking up a tube and an empty bag. Standing I would let the fluid drain out into the empty bag on the floor – usually about 1.5 litres of fluid came out.

Then I would hang a full bag of IV solution, one litre, or just hold it high enough so it would drain into my abdomen. The solution was always cooler than body temperature so it was always chilling the first half hour especially on winter mornings. When the bag was empty. I would cap off the tube into my abdomen and head to the bus stop and go to work. That was bag 1 for the day.

At work with my gym bag I would work until lunch and repeat the drain and refill process in the nurses closet office in the building. That was bag 2 and then back to work for the afternoon.

When I got home from work it was time to repeat the process with bag # 3.

Before I went to bed it was time again for bag #4, had to go to sleep early as I had to get up early and do it all again the next day and the next day. Of course there was restrictions on fluid and diet but I don’t recall those as too difficult and my wife was always so wonderfully supportive.

A short video here is worth a thousand words, about 90 seconds long.

I probably did CAPD for about a year and half. Then some bouts of peritonitis and stays in the hospital lead to the access point being sutured shut so I could recover. I am glossing over the details but they were painful times involving stays in hospital.

End of part 1 of this post (I try to keep them brief).

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Thank you sincerely for reading – David

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Lucille Ball – The Plot Thickens

Welcome Back! I am excited to tell you about a podcast series that I listened to with huge enthusiasm.

I enjoy reading biographies a great deal but it turns out that when the biography is narrated by Ben Mankiewicz (The host of “The Plot Thickens”)THEN I zip through the episodes much as I binge occasionally on an excellent K-drama on Netflix.

You can link up to the podcast here and listen or I use Google Podcasts.

The crew behind Ben must be awesome researchers as each episode of Season Three of “The Plot Thickens” was like a slice of hot apple pie and I devoured each one. I may listen to the whole series again because it was so interesting.

I can totally understand why Lucille Ball was chosen for the focus for an entire season. Lucille started from poverty in Jamestown USA and she failed in her chosen career more than once but never gave up, eventually moving from the Queen of B Movies to the Queen of television.

The podcasts tell her history, her heartbreaks, and much about the behind the scenes happenings of show business life.

I loved how the podcast included live recordings of Lucille, Desi, and their daughter. It also included recordings from others who witnessed their lives up-close.

Lucille went from almost starving on the streets of New York to running a studio and possibly being the reason why Star Trek and Mission Impossible are the legends they are today.

Lucille Ball’s big break began on RKO studios and she eventually bought the studio – but that comes later in the series and I hope you check one or two episodes out yourself using one of the link above.

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I love this quote;

One of the things I learned the hard way was that it doesn’t pay to get discouraged.

Keeping busy and making optimism a way of life can restore faith in yourself.

Lucille Ball

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If you think you knew her story before, listen and learn a little bit more. –

Best wishes – David

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In Two Days – Two Years!

In two days – Third Anniversary 🤗🤗🤗

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Thank you for visiting today, I am both looking ahead and looking back today.

I know I could write much more about this experience♥♥♥

I hope that this post will refresh your own appreciation for the treasure that being alive and healthy truly is, and learn more about being an Organ Donor.

Sincerely, David

My last dialysis ?

Two years ago today I was at Penticton Hospital, having what I thought would be my last hemodialysis treatment. I was excited and confident, in 48 hours I was going to get my long awaited new kidney transplant !

It turned out that to be extra cautious I did another two hours hooked up for dialysis the night before the surgery in Vancouver Hospital, but my buzz of excitement wasn’t lessened at all.

April 24, 2019 my family gathered around my bed in excitement to wish me success and pray for…

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Okanagan Moments – Not Too Much Talking

Thank you for visiting “Life and Random Thinking” today – David

Spring is dragging its feet this year and the fruit tree blooms are slowly arriving. It was minus 1 this morning so I imagine the robins are very confused/perplexed.

Today I am going to share a handful of local photos that I have been planning to share for some time. ♥

Pictures information instead of captions –

  • My son and I have been painting some rocks, a few are by the front door – one of my favorites is the tiny ladybug.
  • The Sicamous paddle-wheeler – a landmark in my city of Penticton. The Canadian Pacific Railway used paddle-wheelers to transport goods and people before there were roads and the Kettle Valley Railway. The Sicamous was built in May of 1914. She is a steel-hulled icebreaker measuring 200.5 feet by 40 feet. The SS Sicamous carried up to 300 passengers, with overnight accommodations and a fine dining room. She ceased operations in 1936 and was permanently beached here in Penticton in August 1951. You can still tour her and we have attended jazz events and murder mysteries nights there. There is a well done miniature train set up on the main floor which shows the route of the Kettle Valley Railway.
  • Apricot blossoms – I love this beautiful Summerland photo from my friend Greg. Thanks Greg!
  • Looking north along one of the two lakes in my city, the Okanagan lake. The Okanagan lake is home to the Ogopogo a native legend that resides in the lake’s depths and surfaces just often enough to keep the legend alive.

I hope you let me know what you liked. – Happy weekend friends ♥

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Do You Know What Day It Is?

Welcome back to “Life and Random Thinking” ! I say welcome back because I am very grateful to the people who visit my blog on a regular basis and I know my readers have a plethora of choices for the use of their time.

Today is National Banana Day !

If you are feeling a little overwhelmed, then today is the perfect day to ” GO BANANAS” ♥.

If you don’t have a banana costume, you could celebrate with a fun Banana Cocktail or a banana split.

Bananas arrived in North America in 1870 when Captain Lorenzo Baker brought bananas he had bought in Jamaica to sell in Jersey City, USA.

Bananas are possibly the most widely consumed fruit in America – the average American eats 30 pounds a year (that’s surprising!).

I did not eat bananas at all from about 1986 to 2019 when I new kidney transplant allowed me to eat them again. I eat one a day now!

*** That special anniversary is April 24! – Against all Odds !

Photo by Eiliv Aceron on Pexels.com

Everyday on the calendar is National “something or other” AND I found it quite interesting to look up my birthday and find out it was “Body Language Day” amongst other things. (October 7)

Of course we all want to celebrate “Talk like a Pirate Day” – September 19, 2022. Pirate was definitely my Halloween favorite growing up but all I said was ” Trick or Treat.”

** If you want to look up your birthday and see what National Holiday it is – just click here **

(I am super curious what you find out!)

– Last thought – Friday is April 22 and Jellybean Day – you can celebrate with any that you have left over from Easter.

Comments are invited and that’s when I look to responding directly with you ♥ – David

Photo by Voyance Smith on Pexels.com

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Photos on a spring day

Welcome to “Life and Random Thinking” ! Thanks for visiting today.

It’s Spring! – I see people outside raking and doing yard clean up, and today I turned on my outside taps (I turn them off so they don’t freeze in the winter) and that’s a sure sign of spring. It’s still a bit chilly to wash the car in the driveway, but I could now. ♥

A few days ago my wife and I were walking at the north end of town along the Penticton River Channel. It’s a man-made river and only 7 kilometres long that connects the Okanagan Lake to the Skaha lake which are the two lakes at either end of my city.

It was created in the 1950’s to control flooding and now there is a dam at the north end to control water flow.

It was a huge project and a perfect project for men needing work after World War II ended, many of them deciding to stay and were given land to settle.

The river channel straightened out the winding oxbow that existed before and resulted in reclaimed land where previously was swamp.

It was here at the dam where my wife found a heron and where we were walking, and here are here pictures.

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It’s the simple things that we can take for granted but that are so important.

Health is easily overlooked, the simple ability to tie my own shoes or walk any distance have been a challenge in the past – but now I am more aware, and hence grateful.

_ ♥ I hope you have amazing regular day! – David

Another walk with my dear wife.

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