All that will be left will be the stories

All that will be left when I die will be the stories.  I will explain in a moment.

My daughter will always be my little girl, but now she’s a grown woman and a wife also to her husband.

She always has had a strong character and I am thankful of her willingness to share her opinion.

A few Christmases past, she came into the living room and commanded we turn off the tv and we go get the Monopoly board out.  Right then, as in instantly.

monopoly 1The tradition was born.

I am so thankful for the Off switch on the tv. After using this very useful switch we regularly sit down and play board games all together as a family, at Christmas, Easter, summer or whenever.

I have a good time playing these games regardless that I am consistently, and some would say, predictably, trounced on a regular basis.

I am looking forward to holidays again this year as my son, and daughter, son in law, patient wife and family and friends are all willing with us to turn off the tv and play board games.

All that will be left when I die will be the stories. Stories of time spent doing things, playing board games, trips we took, and other interaction stories.

I have those stories with my family from growing up.  I want my family to have those stories to remember also.

Christmas will be another opportunity to make some stories. I will use it.

Just being together will be lost as memorable,  the menus of meals we shares will be forgotten, the clothing we wore won’t matter, what movie we watched together will never come to mind but I’m believing that the stories will remain of time spent playing games, taking walks, and hopefully some loving hugs.

heart windshiledBig forever hugs.

 

 

 

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25 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Saying a Word

I don’t like long lists but this one is ok because it’s not about the list, it’s about having a mindful kind love, and a heart that smiles.

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25 Ways to Say “I Love You” Without Saying a Word

by  Winifred M. Reilly

mature married couple

Recently, on a cross-country flight, my husband and I were seated on opposite sides of the aisle. Several times, he leaned toward me to ask, “Would you like a bite of my sandwich?” “Can I get you some water?” Once he offered to share the last bite of his cookie. A while later, he reached over and put his hand my arm, just to say, “Hi.”

At the end of the flight the woman next to me said, “Your husband really loves you. I can tell.”

And she’s right. He does.

As couples, we express love through our everyday actions — our gestures of kindness, our generosity, our attention, our touch.

We say, “Drive safely.” “Take an umbrella.” We kiss each other goodnight.

And our spouse hears,”I love you,” in a way that touches more…

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A Memorable Evening out for dinner +

 

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relaxed and in the moment

I was recently on a holiday with my son, and it had many memorable moments. Most sadly will slip away through my fingers like when I try to hold a cup of water in my hand.

Some drops will stay and I will be glad, happy that I stopped with him and we stared out at the sunset over the Gulf of Mexico and just drank it all in together. Our arms over each other’s shoulder, not talking,  seabirds swirling and diving before they dove headlong into the calm shore waters.

I am not great at living in the moment. In fact I am terrible at it, and a calm moment usually means I am guiltily thinking of something I intended to do, planned to do, and still am procrastinating on.

Those thoughts creep in.

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Can I look now?

There I did it again!  Drat.

Still  this  Dinner in the video would be a memorable evening out and one that maybe for a few seconds you along with me would be distracted enough to live in the moment.

I hope you like it, a lot of people have.  I thought of post title that was more scintillating but decided I would let it pass, but I wonder if it would have increased readership. Ha!

Thanks for taking the time, and I hope you are looking forward to some memorable moments.Viva Life’s distractions! May you live a life filled with distractions and memorable moments and carry on with your day smiling!

 

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Yes to the No!

I like this because it’s true. Say yes and open your life.
What will happen ? Wonderful new friends, and amazing realizations of all kinds.

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What is your go-to answer when opportunity presents itself?

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Life a knee jerk reaction, often no slips out of our mouth before even giving yes a consideration?

No, I can’t. No, I shouldn’t.

Perhaps the possibility of saying yes seems a little daunting or maybe even impossible.

But is it?

Consciously or unconsciously, I started to say yes on a more regular basis.  Not very single time of course, but more often than ever before, I find myself saying yes.

In doing so, not only have I opened the door to countless possibilities, but I have learned much about myself in the process.  Expanding our knowledge & our experiences can only enhance the life we are living.

How much richer would your life be if you turned some of those nos into yeses?

I dare you to try.  Over the next little bit, listen to how many times you automatically…

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Dodge a regret and say the words

I had had a non event day, nothing memorable, until I got the news.

eyeball,black and whiteA close friend had gone down to the inlet to swim in the ocean I knew and on the evening news the radio announced a drowning at that beach.

Dread gripped my heart, and I tried to phone and confirm if it was my friend, Mark.  I left messages, and my heart felt dry like paper.

Hours passed and I started to realize all the conversations I still wanted to have with him, especially one conversation where I told him he was like a younger brother to me, and I really liked to spend time with him, and that I loved him.

I felt real regret that I had never had that conversation.

Then the phone rang, it was him, and he was fine. Relief washed over me like a wave as I took a deep breath. I made plans then to have that conversation with Mark, and I did.

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I think we all have a Mark, or someone like Mark who is important to us.  I don’t think it is just a guy thing that we neglect or shy away from expressing thankfulness and caring for friends.

winnie 2Let’s not stop with family this week, let’s let our extended family know that we love them too!

Your heart will feel better for it, that summer night years ago, mine sure did.

I learned a lesson that night.

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Thanks for reading,  for taking a moment. I really have appreciated all the “likes” and comments this week.  🙂

I have included a beautiful Nat King Cole classic today – smile.  He sings so velvety.

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Arches ~ Temptation of the Exotic

Superb photos and writing, much more beckoning to me than building outlines. I read this looking at desert rock and outside winter bites a little harder, -3 outside today 🙂

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She sits there quietly with the glow of the morning sun reflecting everything a beautiful day should contain. I pace around in search for the perfect angle to enjoy her, and as I look on with eyes filled with desire I set my camera and capture my first sunrise at Arches.

A thought enters my mind…have I just fallen in love?

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Stretching out, I close my eyes and sigh.  Relaxing under her arch, comfortable with the idea I am experiencing something amazingly new; I consider the gnawing question of “why am I here?”

This thought wriggles around a bit in the back of my mind, but fades as the warmth of the sun and the soft whispers and laughter of the wind allows me to drift off to dream.

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Somewhere up north nestled in the Olympic National Forest lies Ellinor, waiting for me and whose love I’ve professed many times…

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