There are All sorts of Unexpected Things in Life

It’s me again ♥ Thanks for visiting and taking time to comment – it makes my day reading the comments and replying.

Today my post belongs to a couple of different categories such as Okanagan Related, and Thinking Out Loud. All the categories are along the right hand side of the page.

My life and yours includes all sorts of unexpected things, hopefully mostly happy, and I am sure you have some stories to tell on that subject.

My bike rides are all about the unexpected for me. I am talking about spotting eagles, osprey, coots, bufflehead ducks and even snakes.

Snakes? Yes; I was riding along the river channel a few day ago and I unexpectedly nearly ran over this tiny snake below. I circled back as I wasn’t even sure it was a snake, as I hardly got a look at it. It was a little one and he had a tiny black head and small tongue flicking out – he was pretty timid though. I thought that would be it for snake sighting that day, but I was wrong.

Only about 50 feet further along that I found another larger snake, and it was less inclined to move away when I got closer.

Since I know that small and larger teeth hurt, (guess how I learned that!) I left these snakes alone. I used pick up wild mice and things but after a few little bites I stopped doing that. (I guess I am learning, albeit slowly)

I am told that years ago, the Okanagan used to have a lot of snakes and in the hills when people went for a walk they swept the sidewalk in front of them to move the snakes out of the way. It is startling for me to imagine that now, it would make a person think twice before putting out the garbage at night!

I lost my wallet in Stanley Park back in the 1970’s so there is still hope apparently because of this recent “found” wallet story that happened here in Penticton just recently.

Two construction workers separated by more than 60 years along Skaha Lake Road in Penticton, B.C., are now connected through a long-lost personal item because Scott Walls, was working in the area back in early March when something caught his eye buried in the roadway.

We were putting in a sewer main and as we were excavating the hole we always watch for other utilities or conflicting things in the ground,” said Walls.

“When the operator was pulling the dirt back, I saw a red credit card — I didn’t know at the time that’s what it was — and it happened to be a leather wallet.”

The wallet was almost perfectly preserved and stamped on it was the name Roger Desfosses. Inside the wallet was an Arthur A. Voice Construction credit card.

Walls took to social media with the information and eventually connected with Defosses’s son, Danny, and widow Gisele Desfosses, who both live in the Edmonton area.

“It was neat,” said Walls. “We find a lot of things in the ground, but usually they’re glass bottles and plastic, but to find something leather and then have a name attached to it and then a credit card with the company he worked for, and the expiry date was 1964… that was super cool.”

Only a couple of days later, the Desfosses family drove out to Penticton from Alberta to meet Walls and get the wallet.

Giselle along with her son, grandson and his wife, and three great-grandchildren all piled into a vehicle to make the trip.

“I had to go. I owed it to Scott, and I owed it to Roger, because he can’t speak for himself and that’s something that he would have done,” said Desfosses.

“When I heard about it, I said we’re going, that’s it, we’re going. Scott wanted to mail it but I didn’t want to take a chance because we lost it for 60 years already, I didn’t want to lose it in the mail for another 60, I won’t be around.”

The pair had come to Penticton in the 1960s for civil construction work along the same stretch of road where Walls had recently been working.

Giselle and Roger Defosses were only in the South Okanagan for a few months, which is likely when the wallet was lost.

Giselle went on to say that the wallet brings back a lot of memories.

“It was a good time in our lives,” Giselle said.“We were just starting our family. Danny, he was four years old, and Suzanne was two and our youngest son was born seven years later, and he is now gone.”

The wallet had been sitting about three-and-a-half feet under Skaha Lake Road ever since.

Roger Desfosses died in 2020 at age 85. He and Giselle had known each other since Grade 1 and were married for 63 years.

Link to video hereclick to watch

They say “expect the unexpected” which just doesn’t make sense to me but I will say “celebrate the unexpected” delightful events you can – they don’t get front page, and they don’t go viral but still taste sweet.

Savour them like lifesaver candies, as long as you are able.

I appreciate you reader! ♥ – Sincerely, David

The Okanagan lake was so smooth today, this was during a morning walk.

About dfolstad58

I live in the South Okanagan. BC. I enjoy reading, exercise, toastmasters. spending time with my son, my daughter, & her husband , and my patient wife. I try to respond personally to every comment on my blog, and in this way I hope to get to know my readers a little bit and and am able to thank readers for their encouragement on what they liked and suggestions on what they would like to see me try in order to improve.
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13 Responses to There are All sorts of Unexpected Things in Life

  1. maybe they should put a sign up “Snake Crossing”? The lake looks perfect for skipping stones!

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  2. Darlene says:

    I love the story of the lost wallet, now found! The unexpected makes great stories to relate. Vacations are usually fun but the best times are when something unexpected happens or shows up. My dad always said that if everything went according to plan, we would have nothing to talk about!

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  3. lghiggins says:

    David, this is a fantastic story. Thank you for sharing it. When you wake in the morning, you never know what the day will bring. 😀

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  4. heimdalco says:

    What a lovely post & what a lovely story about the wallet. It didn’t disappoint. In only several sentences it told us quite a lot about the man that lost it & his family. It made me want to know more … & to find joy in the unexpected

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    • dfolstad58 says:

      I agree with you. It’s more than a scrap of leather buried under the pavement for decades. It reminds of how I feel when I am organizing and I find a letter I kept from my Baba who is gone but her photo is will always be displayed. Sometimes I come across one of my Mom’s handmade cards and she worked beautifully on each one. I know you understand how the heart responds and memories return. – David

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  5. Hi David,

    On my bike rides I always think of you. I don’t have the same landscape as you do, but I am always on the look out for creatures along the way. I am happy to report that I haven’t come across any snakes. They terrify me!!

    “Celebrate the unexpected” – I love that!!

    Instead of lifesavers, I will enjoy chocolate and ice cream 🙂

    Blessings to you!

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    • dfolstad58 says:

      Chocolate and ice cream mmmm. There is a cold brew coffee flavoured ice cream here that I am looking forward to investigating (for science of course) My son and I have been investigating japanese food lately – I love research. Snakes are nice to see but I hate riding over them! Hugs for writing – David

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  6. What a great story about the wallet. The snakes, not so much.

    I am really enjoying the O canada series, thanks David. Ken

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    • dfolstad58 says:

      I haven’t posted of the two MUCH bigger ones we came across the other day on our ride. The pictures don’t give much perspective as we didn’t get really close to these guys!

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