A Day to Remember, A Day to Learn From

It is almost December 7, and that is a day to remember for anyone who has ever visited Hawaii, or any beautiful place like Hawaii is.


Why should December 7, 1941  be a day to remember, a day to learn from?

Let’s look at the event

USS Arizona battleship, photo from Wikipedia

There is only a small number of people now even alive who were there in Pearl Harbour, 1941 – 75 years ago. It was a desperate act by a small country against a much larger country. Japan did not have the capacity to make war against the United States for much longer than a year so they were hoping for a devastating quick war, but they underestimated the ability of the United States forces to recover.


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The tranquility, and beauty of Oahu was replaced by bombs, smoke, death and destruction on that morning and throughout the day of December 7, 1941.

December 1941,  Decisions were made and actions were taken that resulted in unimaginable repercussions back to the Japanese people, and indeed to the whole world.

After six months the Japanese were no longer on the offensive in the Pacific war. But war continued and the Americans wanted vengeance for Pearl Harbour.

Let’s look at what the event eventually lead to with respect to Japan

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Nuclear devastation in Japan

I believe on the basis of research that I did that American vengeance was the primary reason that Truman authorized the nuclear bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki on August 6th, 1945. Very little research was needed to confirm that the Americans had wiped out the Japanese air force, in fact the American bombers had removed their defensive guns from their planes more than eight months before as they were not needed. The Americans were bombing mainly civilians in Japan for more than six months but Japanese leadership were reluctant to unconditionally surrender, dragging out the ugliness and continued deaths.

 Thinking about the December 7 event;  how  does it apply now?

War is always disastrous and yet we continue to have war almost continuously somewhere on the planet. There is no such thing as a quick war either, and the scale of war is impossible to contain, and are never contained to armed forces. Civilians, children, adults, and grandparents who have never even held a gun are killed, livelihoods eradicated, and their homes destroyed. The demand for vengeance cycles back and forth, war is never worthwhile.

Thinking about December 7, does it have smaller scale meaning?

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Internet photo of road rage

I once watched a short film about road rage, where a small incident results in a chain of reactions back and forth, each more violent, more unreasonable in connection to the original. Eventually, and unbelievable they killed each other, each unable to stop the madness. This is just one smaller scale meaning.


Trying to identify a lesson from history to living now

December 7, 1941 is a day for me to remember that people are prone to mistakes, a simplification certainly as Pearl Harbour was an act of war. But it can lead past just simply winning the war, it leads to vengeance.  Vengeance, the eye for an eye mentality is the something that humankind needs to set aside.

Negativity I imagine could be like waves spreading out after a stone is dropped in the water. I mean that approach where we think, “why should I do that for that person because no one does that for me.”

If that is the lesson, does it make a difference to me?

In my personal daily life, how can I apply that? In my life I  can try to ignore the small actions that I consider slights that people do. They occur on the road, in restaurants, and really everywhere. Instead I  will love the surprise of holding the door for someone unexpectedly,  inviting someone else to take the line ahead of me, and try to imagine some stressful event that causes another driver to behave the way they have.

Image result for attitudeI  have a choice, maybe the only thing I actually control in my life is my attitude. I can breathe and let go, move on or I can continue the chain of slights and unforgiveness against the humanity around me.

Which will make me feel better?


Why blog about it?

What a world we could have if we were chain breakers instead. If we all did a random act of kindness once a day anonymously, that would be huge. It could be while driving, or even by simply picking up one piece of litter.

Just One small act, Once a day, it doesn’t need to be monetary, each of us can decide for ourselves what we do. Which will make us feel better? Which will make our lives better?

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Random Acts of Kindness – I think that is a lifestyle change I can embrace going forward,  once a day, in some very small way, I will do something positive expecting nothing in return.

That’s what I learned from December 7 and will try to apply in my life and by writing it down I hope it can become a habit.

For me December 7, is a day to remember, a day to learn from.

Thanks for taking the time to read this post. What do you think? Should people learn history, recall history? Where do you find inspiration? Is this kind of post worthwhile? interesting? How can I improve my writing? my presentation? What did you like?  Your comments and suggestions are welcome.  


About dfolstad58

I live in the South Okanagan. BC. I enjoy reading, exercise, toastmasters. spending time with my son, my daughter, & her husband , and my patient wife. I try to respond personally to every comment on my blog, and in this way I hope to get to know my readers a little bit and and am able to thank readers for their encouragement on what they liked and suggestions on what they would like to see me try in order to improve.
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5 Responses to A Day to Remember, A Day to Learn From

  1. Thank you for the important reminder of Dec. 7 and your amazing take away from that day. Random acts of kindness each day. Hate brings hate. Kindness brings kindness. Great message to spread.

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    • dfolstad58 says:

      Thank you for taking the time to read my blog and especially for leaving your comment. I liked your comment because it was encouraging and it let me know that my blog has meaning more than just to me. bless you🤗


  2. calmkate says:

    Well written really appreciate the sentiment … wars are such a waste and motivated by profit for arms dealers … deaths are merely collateral. May we all practice kindness, do random acts and celebrate life and love for all!

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  3. fryzz jeffers says:

    hey my friend, unlike many others that read this, I can actually hear your voice. It firstly is kind and loving, with honesty and discernment , gentle yet in my face [😊] . Im not one for reading much, but I did listen to your speech. You were very successful in keeping my attention, putting me at Pearl Harbor and in the streets of Japan. I was able to feel your emotion and concerns. I join you in continuing “small acts of kindness” unconditionally to make our world a better place. Thanks Dave Jeff



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